My Hair

I have hair that is somewhere in the region of the middle of my back in terms of length. It is not a flattering length for me. My hair is very thick and has a wave to it. The length it is now means it is heavy and this weight causes the wave to go away and makes the hair hang there doing not much of anything. My hair is now getting gray around the temple. My hair is annoying me. I read somewhere recently that I could be suffering from '1661 hair'. This is hair that could age me as 16 from the back but as soon as I turn around, 61 is probably more likely the age. I am neither of these ages - somewhere in the middle is my age. I have come to realise that I hide behind my hair. I let my hair dictate how I feel about myself. Lately I have not been feeling that great. I think it is time for me to grow a set of balls and just go get it cut. I fancy a shoulder length or slighter shorter bob, with layers and long side swept bangs. I also don't think I am ready to live with the grey - it tells too many secrets! I think a haircut will do wonders for me. Help me get back into the life I have spent so much time avoiding. Yes, time for a good chop!